Motherland Australia

Some of us know Kaitie Nash from Instagram, she proudly calls herself 'the first time farmer', and is part of a growing number of farmfluencer mums online, sharing real, relatable and often hilarious content about life on the land. But farm life hasn't always been a laughing matter for Kaitie. She moved to her husband's family property in the middle of a drought, while still adjusting to motherhood with two very young kids. Her mental health plummeted and in our chat she opens up about her very personal journey with that. Kaitie has been a lot of things, even a flight attendant! Farmer was never part of the plan. Today, you'll hear all about the ups and the downs, plus what happened when she got bitten by a snake when she was home alone with the kids. This is her story.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Sadie Chrestman was living a stones throw away from the famous Coca-Cola sign in Sydney’s Darlinghurst, living a very urban life, when she was set up on a blind date. Sadie, who had just turned 40, knew that she wanted to have kids and settle down, she also knew she wanted more space. And it turns out the man she was set up on a date with wanted the exact same thing. You might know Sadie’s name from the long-running SBS series Gourmet Farmer. The person she was set up with in 2007 was none other than chef turned food critic turned farmer Matthew Evans. The only problem was, when they met, Matthew was about to move to Tasmania to start a new life as a farmer. Sadie moved to Tasmania’s Huon Valley when she was 7 months pregnant and very quickly, she found herself learning how to be a mum, and a farmer in a new community, in a different state. Now, Sadie and Matthew run Fat Pig Farm and their son, Hedley, is 15. This is her story.A warning this episode touches on miscarriage. If you need support, head to Red Nose HERE. The Regional Tech Hub is shining a spotlight on ‘connectivity for education’, helping families navigate how best to connect your loved ones for school, university, TAFE and other online learning. Stay tuned for more detail in January 2025. The Regional Tech Hub is here to help us navigate the complex world of connectivity and the high demand for accessible and impartial advice on phone and internet solutions to support you and your family. Visit the RegionalTechHub.org.au to find out more about their FREE and independent service.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

At 35, Kerry O’Sullivan was busy running her 90,000-acre cattle station near Clermont in QLD. On the surface life was great. Kerry had a successful business, lived next door to her 3 sisters and parents, all on neighbouring properties, and spent her weekends at campdrafts. But Kerry knew deep down that she really wanted to be a mum. The only problem was, she’d never met the right person. At 35, Kerry started the process of doing it on her own, but at a routine doctor's appointment, she was told that her body didn’t produce eggs. And while it was a devastating discovery, it didn’t stop her. Kerry began researching egg and sperm donors and IVF clinics. There was talk of embryos from America, but then COVID hit. Thankfully, she found a way to do it all, closer to home. Now Kerry is a mum to two little kids, Joe, who was born in 2022 and Dulcie who was born in 2023. Kerry sits down with me for a very honest conversation about her journey to motherhood, and what she’d tell people who find themselves in a similar situation to her. This is her story.The Regional Tech Hub has helped more than 300,000 people around rural Australia with free and independent advice on getting connected and staying connected to vital internet and voice services. The team can help answer all your connectivity questions. Visit the RegionalTechHub.org.au to find out more about their FREE and independent service.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Since 2018, Michelle Moriarty’s life has been split into two halves. Before the love of her life, Nathan died, and after. Michelle and Nathan were raising their family in regional WA after a romance, Michelle says was for the ages. Michelle was working as a social worker, Nathan and her were a team, and life was pretty good. But on the 10th of June 2018, everything changed. Michelle’s grief was all-consuming and isolating despite the village she had around her. She knew then that she didn’t want any other person to feel that way, so she founded Grief Connect - a Young Widowed Support group, and online hub where widowed men and women could come and have honest conversations about the realities of losing loved ones. And then, four years later after losing her father, she founded a similar group for widowers over 55 .Michelle is a remarkable woman and today she shares her grief, her joy, what it was like learning to love again, and how she’s mothered through it all. This is Michelle’s story. The Regional Tech Hub’s mission is simple: to equip anyone living or working in rural Australia with trusted connectivity advice to help unlock new technologies, boost innovation, and create a connected future.The team can help answer all your connectivity questions. Visit the https://regionaltechhub.org.au to find out more about their FREE and independent service. https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

This month, Motherland celebrates the positive impact our charity partner, the Isolated Children’s Parents Association, continues to make for families just like yours everyday. Their wonderful volunteers together have created branches throughout rural Australia - and their ‘relentless and always on’ advocacy continues to build and grow better educational outcomes for our kids. To bring this incredible work to life, today’s episode features one of their own, Steph Cowper. Steph wears many hats but her commitment to education and dedication to continuous learning shines through. Today you’ll hear about Steph’s own motherhood journey...from relocating from a coastal town to rural Queensland, losing her identity after her two kids were born and throwing herself into study, the realities of being married to a FIFO worker and her daughter’s early anxiety diagnosis. This is her story.If you’re a parent at any stage of the education journey and are keen to make a difference, join the ICPA community today. Head to icpa.com.au to sign up and support their important work and give our kids the opportunities they deserve.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Nicole Sandland was about to move to Germany to further pursue her professional dancing career when she fell in love with a bloke from the land. She went away for three months but came home, and what happened next was a whirlwind romance. Nicole and Luke packed up their life in Adelaide and moved to Jamestown in regional South Australia, near Luke’s family farm. The pair opened the town’s first gym, and then moved onto a property out of town, and then COVID hit. But unlike a lot of people, Nic really enjoyed the forced lockdown, because she’s not very good at slowing down and not doing things, and she’ll be the first to admit it. Nic is a mum to 18-month-old Seb, a trainer at Kate Ivey Fitness, and the founder, co-director and PT at her own gym, NicFit. In this very honest episode of Motherland, Nic joins me to discuss the ‘trap’ of trying to do it all, what happens when your husband quits farming to join your business, and the realities of being a mum who wants to work, but also wants nothing more than to be with her kids. If you’re also a mum who’s wearing too many hats and who's struggling with the mental load, you need to listen to this very honest conversation. This is Nicole’s story. The ICPA is here to help you and your children thrive. Through their support, they can connect you with other families who understand your challenges, and can provide you with access to invaluable tools and resources to support your children’s learning at all ages and stages. Head to icpa.com.au — and  join today to give our kids the opportunities they deserve. https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Felicity Burton, a keen horsewoman from the age of five, is an exceptional camp drafter, and always knew she wanted a career on the land. And life on the land with kids has certainly had its ups and downs. Felicity was in the early stages of her second pregnancy, with twins, when she took her 20-month-old son Kory on a quad bike ride. They’d fed the horses. Put the dogs away. And we’re just moving a few sheep into the next paddock when they had an accident. With broken ribs and a shattered collarbone, Felicity was driven to hospital while Kory was flown to Brisbane with head injuries. He was placed in an induced coma and took weeks to wake up from it. At such a young age he had to learn to walk, talk and eat again. During their time in Brisbane, the Burton’s stayed at Ronald McDonald house, and that’s where Felicity got an idea. Along with two of her friends, she co-founded the Common Ground Foundation, providing low-cost accommodation for rural families whose loved ones are in hospital. This is her story. Felicity and Karl now have a paddock to plate arm of their business and distribute their beef across the country. To order, contact them HERE or phone 0431039809. Our charity partner the Isolated Children’s Parents’ Association, or ICPA have been advocating for families just like yours for 54 years. ICPA’s volunteers work hard to make sure that every child, no matter how far they live from the city, gets the best possible start in their education journey and that rural and remote students are not left behind.Head to icpa.com.au — join today to give our kids the opportunities they deserve.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

What’s it like seeing someone else grow your baby? That’s a question I couldn’t help asking today’s incredible guest Jade Cooper. As you're about to hear, Jade hasn’t had the easiest of lives, but that hasn’t stopped her from going after the things that matter. Jade was just 18 months old when a lump was discovered on her kidney. The next three years involved countless trips to Brisbane for chemotherapy, radiation and checkups. Jade went into remission at just three years old, and her childhood is clouded with the memory of knowing she would never be able to have kids, but she wanted to defy the odds. When Jade met her husband, they started trying immediately, knowing it would take some time. Then they were hit with unthinkable news. So, they thought they’d try their hand at foster care...but the blows kept coming. For Jade, this was rock bottom. But then a woman messaged her, offering to be her surrogate. Jade’s story is one of hope and never giving up on your dreams, no matter what is thrown your way. It also sheds light on what it’s like going through IVF, surrogacy and egg and sperm donors when you live rurally. This is Jade Cooper’s story.Our charity partner the Isolated Children’s Parents’ Association, or ICPA have been advocating for families just like yours for 54 years. Whether you have little ones looking to access early education, primary kids or those looking to access high school or embark on further studies or training, they care. Head to icpa.com.au — and join today to give our kids the opportunities they deserve.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Nicole Seekamp always knew she wanted to be a basketball player. But a goat farmer? Well, that wasn’t part of her plan. When she was 14, she left her hometown of Renmark in South Australia and moved across the country to Canberra and the Australian Institute of Sport. Over the next 20 years, she played for not only our national team, the Opals, at the Commonwealth Games, but all over the world. By 2019 she was on track for her first Olympics.  But as the 2020 season drew to a close, Nicole knew she wouldn’t be returning to basketball, because she’d fallen in love with a Goat Farmer named Ross from Wilcannia. Ending her basketball career also meant walking away from a huge part of her life. But knew heart wasn’t in it anymore, and she also knew she wanted a new life with Ross. So what was it like swapping basketball courts and cheering crowds, for paddocks of red dirt and goats? And how have the first three years of Motherhood been with two under two? This is Nicole's story. If you’re sick of miscommunication and poor record keeping on your farm, Mobble is the livestock farm management app to improve communication, transparency, and productivity on your property. Try it FREE for 21 days at Mobble.io, and get everyone on the same page. Mention Motherland for 20% off all subscriptions! https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

I was speaking at the Rural Women Unite event in Charters Towers last month when I met Lisa Hodgkinson, a mum of 4 from Clermont in central Queensland. Lisa met her husband Glen when she was 18. By 19, the couple were married. And 2 weeks after they tied the knot, just as Lisa turned 20, she found out that she was infertile. It took 3 years, two pregnancy losses, and two more cycles, before their eldest daughter Mia was born. They continued to try for more kids, all via IVF. With their fourth baby Marlee, Lisa knew something was very different, and soon after she was born, Marlee was diagnosed with Down Syndrome. While it’s been a tough journey, she has enriched the lives of Glen and Lisa and their older girls, but living rurally has also had an impact on the care that Marlee can access. October is National Down Syndrome Awareness Month and it’s also Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness month. Lisa has experience with both. This is her story.If you’ve experienced Pregnancy Loss and need support, call the 24/7 Red Nose Grief and Loss Support Line on 1300 308 307 or visit rednosegriefandloss.org.au. This is Lisa’s story. Are you raising a child with developmental concerns, a disability, or who is neurodivergent? Envisage is here to empower you and your family to feel confident and supported. Their FREE peer support program is designed to provide parents a compassionate space where you can learn, grow, and find the resources you need to thrive. There’s NO diagnosis or NDIS plan required— and…it's fully funded with no cost to you. Head to: https://envisage.community/The Compassion Project is an organisation dedicated to helping mums face difficult days. They’ve launched the Emotional Support for Mothers Toolkit - designed to help you navigate every stage of motherhood. Over the next 12 months, EVERY rural mum who enrols in our Motherland Village online program will receive this toolkit, for FREE. To learn more head to thecompassionproject.auMotherland Village enrolments for 2025 are now OPEN across all three age groups, 0-3 years, 4-10 years and 11-18 years. https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Melissa McGilvray knows a thing or two about her world turning upside down. Because on two very ordinary days, nearly 20 years apart, that’s exactly what happened to her. Mel’s husband Garth went to chop some firewood, when the unthinkable happened. The tree he was cutting fell on him, and he died. As traumatic as it was, Mel knew she had to go on, for her, and for their little boy Oli. And then, a few years later, the universe weaved its magic, and Mel fell in love with Oli’s godfather, and one of Garth’s best mates, Scotty. But in 2020, Mel’s world turned upside down again. Scotty was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and he lived for 10 more months. Somehow, through all the grief, loss and heartache - she’s still got a positive outlook on life. This is a story of love, hope and how starting over again, and again, even when it seems impossible, is actually possible. It’s a story about how, through the very darkest of days, Mel has found joy again. This is her story. Are you raising a child with developmental concerns, a disability, or who is neurodivergent? Envisage is here to empower you and your family to feel confident and supported. Their FREE peer support program is designed to provide parents a compassionate space where you can learn, grow, and find the resources you need to thrive. There’s NO diagnosis or NDIS plan required— and…it's fully funded with no cost to you. Head to: https://envisage.community/The Compassion Project is an organisation dedicated to helping mums face difficult days. They’ve launched the Emotional Support for Mothers Toolkit - designed to help you navigate every stage of motherhood. Over the next 12 months, EVERY rural mum who enrols in our Motherland Village online program will receive this toolkit, for FREE. To learn more head to thecompassionproject.auMotherland Village enrolments for 2025 are now OPEN across all three age groups, 0-3 years, 4-10 years and 11-18 years. https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

When people go on a reality TV show to find the love of their life, it doesn’t always end in a baby announcement and a full-blown commitment to each other. But when Clare Hockings decided to try to find her life partner on Farmer Wants A Wife in 2023, well, things kind of ended that way. Clare was raised in Scone NSW, Australia’s horse capital. And later in the country music capital of Tamworth. She worked in childcare and the local stockyards and spent her weekends with her horses. So she knew what she was getting into when she decided to look for love with a farmer. And when she met farmer Brad from Cootamundra, she was pretty smitten. But at one point, Clare wanted to leave the show, but Brad asked her not to. And lucky he did that because when the final episode of the season went to air, Clare was already living with Brad, and she was pregnant! Clare and I talk about everything from finding love on reality TV to what happens when you find out you're pregnant in a relatively new relationship, and what the first eight months of rural motherhood have been like for her.Our incredible winter podcast sponsor Cable is offering an exclusive 15% off discount on all full-price styles on their website! Visit cablemelbourne.com and use the code MOTHER15 for your discount, this offer is only available until the 30th of November.Motherland will be back in your ears on Monday October 7 with a brand new Spring season!https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

I met Deb Frecklington at Beef Week in Rockhampton this year at a cocktail party, and before she knew it, I’d roped her into sharing her story for the first time like this. Deb is a proud Queenslander who grew up on a cattle property. She’s worn many hats throughout her career including producer, and, politician. Amongst it all, she’s a mum to three girls. Deb has served as the Leader of the Opposition, and the Shadow Minister for Agriculture just to name a few roles. She’s currently the State Member for Nanango and Shadow Minister for Energy and the Cost of Living, Shadow Minister for Water and the Construction of Dams and Shadow Minister for Regional Development and Manufacturing. It’s a mouthful, and a handful, but throughout her career and humble beginnings, her values have been quite simple.Family has always been her driving force. This isn’t a chat about politics (thank god!), this is a conversation about Deb’s personal journey including her love of the land, her passion for encouraging rural women to follow their dreams, and her remarkable family journey. This is her story. Aside from knitwear and luxe wool coats, our winter podcast sponsor CABLE also specialises in other natural fibres, such as silk, Tencel and cotton - used to craft beautiful dresses and matching sets, perfect for a special occasion or event. Click HERE to shop.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Meredith Boddington, or Merry, as she likes to be called, went through her 20s and 30s looking for Mr Right. Raised on a sheep farm near Naracoorte in South Australia, Merry trained as a teacher. Her work took her across South Australia and into Victoria. But still no Mr Right. And then she met Wayne. A farmer who was also from Naracoorte. It turned out the person she had been looking for for all those years was a bloke from her country town! Merry and Wayne hit it off instantly, and after they got married, they knew they wanted a baby. So, they went to the local GP, who sent them to Adelaide - a 4 hour drive away - to see an IVF specialist. Merry was approaching 50, and knew it wasn’t going to be easy. After 12 rounds of IVF and an egg donor, Merry fell pregnant at 49. Max, her son, is now 15 years old, and Merry joins me to share her remarkable story, and to give hope to those who still haven’t found the one. This is her story.With 19 retail stores and counting, our winter podcast sponsors CABLE have cemented themselves as a leading Australian womenswear brand for premium woollen knitwear and coats, luxurious daywear and quality everyday essentials. In addition to locations in Victoria, NSW, SA, WA, ACT and TAS, you can also find CABLE in over 40 independent fashion stockists across Australia, and 18 in New Zealand.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Belle Baker grew up on a property in the South-East of South Australia. She loved working with the cattle and sheep and dreamed of a career on the land. But when the time came for her to decide what she was going to do with her life, her dad told her to go and get a real job, because the farm wasn’t going to be an option for her. After years of travel overseas, and studying in Sydney, Belle returned to South Australia. In her mid 30s, she became a mum and a single parent to her son at the same time. After leaving an abusive relationship, she found shelter at her parents' property. When her dad got very sick in 2015, Belle (ironically) after all those years, found herself running the farm. She’d rarely driven the tractor, and it was a difficult model for her to learn to use.  When it came time to buy a new one, Belle was in for a rude shock when it came to the decision making. This is where Tractoring For Women was born. Belle is a remarkable woman, and her story is one you need to hear. A warning, it touches on domestic violence so if you or someone you know needs help, call 1800 RESPECT.Our winter podcast sponsors CABLE have just launched the first drops of their exciting Spring Collection, introducing pieces that will be the foundations of your trans-seasonal wardrobe. Think cosy woollen knitwear, matching sets, and outwear to take you from Winter to Spring and beyond in style. Shop HERE.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Stephanie March was 17 she met her husband Cameron and they got married a few years later. Life was good. They went on what Steph describes as a ‘killer honeymoon’ and fell pregnant very easily. Not long after, their daughter Lexi was born, and then their son Bill. And that’s where everything changed for their family. Bill was born with his heart on the other side of his body. He was diagnosed with an incurable, rare and lifelong condition that affects the respiratory system as well as organ placement - meaning all his essential organs were on the wrong side of his body. What came next is a decade long journey, in and out of major hospitals, living life away from the farm and also trying not to feel guilty about managing it all. Steph is a remarkable woman with a special kind of outlook on life. This is her story. CABLE is proudly supporting the Australian Merino wool industry, working with local farmers to produce their much-loved Merino Collection and prides itself on achieving global Woolmark certification. The Woolmark brand signifies exceptional quality and craftsmanship of Merino Wool products. Shop now at: https://www.cablemelbourne.com/https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Milly Taylor grew up near Paris. And she never intended to live on a farm, let alone a farm in Australia. But while on a University exchange to Melbourne where she was studying aero-space engineering, Milly met Michael Taylor. Michael was also studying engineering, but he had always planned on returning to his historic family’s farm, Taylors Run, located in Kentucky, New South Wales. They were living in Melbourne when they welcomed their first child, and still there when they fell pregnant with their second. It was then that the Taylor’s decided to return home to Taylor’s Run. And it was a far cry from Paris, to say the least! Milly felt very isolated at times, with little connection outside Michael’s parents and their family unit. Eventually, she convinced Michael to pack up their three children and move to Paris for a year. Milly has been in Australia for 25 years, she has an incredible story and a beautiful accent. This is her story.CABLE’s winter sale on now! Save on cool-weather essentials crafted from 100% Australian Merino Wool, Cashmere, Mohair and Cashwool. CABLE’s huge Autumn/ Winter sale includes Jumpers, Cardigans, Coats, Jackets and Puffers, Pants, Dresses & Tops. Save up to 60% on this premium Australian-owned and designed label. Head to: https://www.cablemelbourne.com/collections/sale  https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Sandra Knowles is the wife of Tasmania’s Premier, Jeremy Rockliff. But that fact is the least interesting thing about Sandra. Her career has spanned law, postings overseas working in the Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade, helping run the family farm and now, as the Director of Tasmania’s Farm Innovation Hub. On top of all of that, Sandra raised 3 daughters on the land, born within 4 years of each other, while her husband was away... a lot. It’s been quite the adventure, and not always easy. Today, Sandra joins me to discuss her incredible career, the pluses and minuses of being married to the Premier, raising young women, and possibly the best love story I’ve ever heard. She may be the wife of Tasmania’s Premier, but Sandra Knowles has always done her own thing. This is her story. CABLE’s winter sale is on now! Take advantage of CABLE’s curated style guide to assist you in navigating your winter style choice, making your selection process a seamless and enjoyable experience. Their beautiful winter coats are crafted with precision and high-quality materials such as Vicuña wool....they are an investment in timeless elegance and a staple for your wardrobe. Shop HEREhttps://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Kim Peake is a mum of three who grew up in rural New South Wales, so when she fell in love with a stud cattle man, Nick, her world didn’t shift that much. Kim and Nick were married during one of the worst droughts the district had seen in 50 years and they welcomed their first daughter, Ruby, not long after. A few years later, Holly was born, and then Kim found out that she was pregnant with their third, a boy, Barney. Each child was born with the same rare disease that required major surgery in Sydney six hours away. When Kim was 15 weeks pregnant with Barney in 2022, their eldest Ruby got sick, fast, with gastro. A bug that is so common in kids and something almost all of us have experienced.  Ruby was rushed to Hospital, and tragically, after six days, she never returned home. Two years on from the loss of Ruby, Kim joins me to share her story and the charity her and Nick have set up in their little girl's name. For more information on Ruby Mae’s wish, head to rubymaeswish.com.au Today’s episode deals with child loss. If you need help, please contact Red Nose. Accessible and easy online shopping with CABLE is available from wherever you live! Check out CABLE’s Journal blog for valuable insights and styling guides, plus browse their beautiful and photography of their collections.https://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia

Kate Rose has lived a truly extraordinary life. She's been a pastry chef in London, owning her own business and working for some of the biggest hotels in the city. She’s also been a soldier in the Iraq war. She was deployed when her two sons were just 9 and 4. And when she came home, she had two little boys who were terrified she’d leave them again. Kate also suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder and heartbreakingly, her marriage ended. After moving home to Australia, and 10 years in the Australian Defence Force, Kate needed a change. She was driving past a farm in Queensland and two weeks later it was hers. So how does a pastry chef turned Army officer turn into a solo farmer? This is Kate Rose’s story. Our winter podcast sponsor CABLE is a proud supporter of the Australian Wool Industry and Merino wool — the team at CABLE loves working with local farmers to produce their much-loved Merino and Heritage collections. Click HERE to explore the Collection!A warning: Today's episode discusses mental health and PTSD. If you need crisis support contact Lifeline on 13 11 14. Find resources via www.blackdoginstitute.org.auhttps://www.instagram.com/motherlandaustralia