If you hope to improve yourself first improve your spiritual self first.

When life fails your expectations do you fall? Do you suck it up? Do you hunch down? Try to yell and get intimidating so people finally listen to you? How’s that working for you? There is a way… Mosiah 26:13.

Primary morning with this-how will you be brave today? I also included some Mel Gibson Braveheart. What is your life worth to you? You are free. What will you do with your freedom? Never take for granted the gift of life.

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The role of a man is to own your woman.

Valentines, or single awareness day, this episode breaks down the 8 different types of love. the Greeks defined love in eight different forms: Eros (sexual passion), Philip (deep friendship), Ludus (playing pleasure), Agape (charity for all), Pragma (long suffering), Philautia (self-love), Storge (family loyalty), and Mania (obsessive narcissism). Read this article on the Cosmopolitan by Emily Gulla “ eight different types of love explained.”

I haven’t put a lot of original thought into this. But I think this might be true when you think of the animalistic brain of men and women. This concept isn’t within the refined process of unconditional love. This is more in the “”Eros, erotic stage of love. Not “Philia” deep friendship, or “Agape” love for everyone.

Breaking up is always difficult. Do you want to be able to have confidence that you made the right decision? Because if you don’t take time to really think about it, you might just fall into the same bad pattern again. Do you have the skill set and the relationship based on principal… The ability to leave knowing that “it’s not their fault it’s just that you see it from a different point of view? They’re not a bad person it’s just we are incompatible.” If you leave before you’re able to answer that honestly, you still need to talk it out. If there are no solutions at the core of your fights, then you have your answer. You might say, “But what about if we can’t even talk about it? Our tendency to get triggered is so strong. We are just in stale, stagnant, and Roommate relationship.” Well, that’s when you get a coach like the TTT- let’s have a chat.

Here is philosophy, 101… How to live a good life? Your aim and just put everything into that. Living your highest ideal and living with integrity really is a life of power. When you can commit to doing the very best that you know you’re on a whole Nother roller coaster of adventure. Life is without pain, but this is the best way to go through the pain of life and have meaning in it.

“Man up” really means sacrifice… even to the point of giving up your life if required. What are you willing to die for? You gotta be able to answer that. If not, you are not a real man. Andy Elliot and D. Todd Christofferson’s father

Are men and women different? If so, how would you articulate their differences?

This is the quick review of David Deida, “The way of the Superior Man.” Some great food for thought here. This was the impetus for all these ‘Man up’ episodes. These paradigm shifts are sure to knock your teeth out.

Masculinity and making a man a man also falls on the shoulders of women. Women have a great responsibility in helping men be men. Women need to hold their man to higher ideals, but how they go about it- It’s going to be very different than a man. Women use your feminine power and force of nature with beautiful persuasion. But if you do it with a masculine dominance, then it becomes a tug-of-war Rather than a synergy

This is the first round between the “Battle of the Sexes.” Can you articulate how boys and girls are different or men and women? I seek to answer this so that you have ammunition and an ability to articulate this war of words and ideas.

Tony Robbins, Matt Townsend, Chloe Madanes, Ralph Waldo Emerson, and G.I. Joe bring you the collective knowledge to disrupt the argument in your marriage. This is the secret sauce to be becoming a relationship ninja to win before it starts and set you up for happiness. Email me at makeabigleap@gmail.com for the free stuff and the extra goodies. But you gotta ask specifically for what you want so I know. And you may even want a custom thing, so let’s start the conversation… How can I help you?

Starting with Dan Clark’s story, “pay attention” you gain valuable insights into what it really means to be human. Are you guilty at living your life in a rush trying to get ahead but never really enjoying life or the process? If so, this one’s for you. The Dollai Lama, when asked what surprised to most about humanity, answered “Man! Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future he does not enjoy the present; 🎁 the result, being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives, as if he is never going to die, and then dies, having never really lived.”

The purpose of life is to be happy… Right? But the irony is that you find happiness, not by seeking it, not the direct route. In this podcast, I share the indirect route that actually produces the most happiness. And like everything, This concept is not the whole enchilada, but just a piece of the puzzle to happiness. If you’re interested in the 30 days of kindness challenge pdf for free, email me at makeabigleap@gmail.com. Ideas from this podcast came from the most popular stories by Dan Clark “broken doll” and fearless culture article, “The purpose of life is to be helpful, not happy.”

How you see yourself is how you live. I know that seems obvious but that’s actually really profound…😱 In the second part, we talk about what it means to be spiritually salty. Christ also gives his example of how to be a light… and let me tell you it’s more profound than what I just told you. 😉 I got a lot of this from Alpha and Omega and I just assume press I had to say it and learn it for myself. Here’s their link: https://youtu.be/MemNi3OMU34?si=_gsGaiVDwXf3QOmv

Who are you? That’s a serious question. And you need to be able to answer that. How are you answer that determines your altitude in life.. most of us fly just as high as most people around them. But one if you were meant for much more? What if you are essentially different than everybody around you? If you are, how would you know it? This episode brings clarity to transform your identity from just accepting everything around you and raising your horizons, so that you can truly fly.

With Jordan Peterson and my model of change, the mystery is over. Addictions can be healed.