Breaking up is always difficult. Do you want to be able to have confidence that you made the right decision? Because if you don’t take time to really think about it, you might just fall into the same bad pattern again. Do you have the skill set and the relationship based on principal… The ability to leave knowing that “it’s not their fault it’s just that you see it from a different point of view? They’re not a bad person it’s just we are incompatible.” If you leave before you’re able to answer that honestly, you still need to talk it out. If there are no solutions at the core of your fights, then you have your answer. You might say, “But what about if we can’t even talk about it? Our tendency to get triggered is so strong. We are just in stale, stagnant, and Roommate relationship.” Well, that’s when you get a coach like the TTT- let’s have a chat.