Unliving the Lie

When a narcissist fears public humiliation they go on an intentional offensive attack. They deliberately misrepresent their victims and spread their falsehoods in a stunning display of audasiousness and cruelty.

When a narcissist fears public humiliation they go on an intentional offensive attack. They deliberately misrepresent their victims and spread their falsehoods in a stunning display of audasiousness and cruelty.

Narcissists invent a fake persona as a psychological defense mechanism. It's all an effort to hide their self-loathing and inner shame. But if you want the truth there are ways to ge it.

Narcissists are not confined to one gender or sexual identification. Simply because studies show males are more narcissistic doesn't mean women cannot be abusers.

As narcissists age, they face realities that no amount of denial can change. Do not fall into the trap of hoping that they will mellow out with age. Narcissists only become more abusive, manipulative, hypersensitive rageful, and entitled as they get older.

Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand in hand in a relationship with a narcissist.  You can hold your own and not get sucked into their mind-numbing insanity.

Once the initial love-bombing stops the true person emerges and you often realize, much to your horror, that the narcissist is an awful person.

Your unmet childhood needs leave you vulnerable o narcissists.

Lying for a narcissist isn't lying as we know it. Because they live in a simulated reality their very existence is a lie

Non-productive arguments and discussions go hand and hand with narcissistic relationships but you can hold your own with them and not get sucked into their insanity.

Narcissists defining characteristic is their sense of grandiosity. They have an unrealistic sense of superiority and will wear a false mask of goodness when really they have no idea what good really is.

This episode I share the third and last time I took my abuser back. Note: I apologize for the sound of my washer in the beginning then later my adult son had an outburst when he hit his head on something.

⚠️Trigger warning ⚠️ certain content may be upsetting and triggering.. some memories of the violence are jumbled and confused due to the trauma and PTSD. This is my story of sexual abuse, substance use coercion and violent assaults .

Part 2. . some memories of the violence are jumbled and confused due to the trauma and PTSD. I share my story of supporting my abuser in his dream to hike the Appalachian Trail and all his broken 💔 promises and betrayal. ..

Narcissists mostly act the same but there are differences between males and females. This is simply because the genders are socialized differently. However female narcissists are still incredibly damaging.

Narcissists have a strong sense of entitlement. They believe they are inherently superior. If anything threatens that false mask the will play the victim to regain control. www.unlivingthelie.com

When a narcissist feels they have lost, or when they feel rejected or abandoned they never forget it. They launch an extreme counterattack of rage that seems to come out of nowhere.

When a victim discards the narcissist, it causes the mother of all narcissistic injury. What they fear the most has become their reality. Rejection. You will instantly become an obsession to them.

Narcissists and sociopaths love being part of exclusive groups so they can feed their voracious appetite for significance. Religion and New Age cults feed their feelings of superiority.  Contact me candace@unlivingthelie.com Trauma Bond Detox Recovery Program Join the Peer Support Group

Narcissists will mirror all of your interests and passions. They fake having empathy and care for others to get significance and outward validation.