Incredibly, Donna-Leigh Perfect is a profound advocate of GRATEFULNESS. In the lead up to this podcast, I asked Donna-Leigh 'For what are you grateful in your life NOW', she simply inferred, 'I am grateful for the adventure of life. I wake up every morning not knowing what might unfold in any one day ... not knowing how life might tease me in the next 24 hours ... This makes life exciting ... a beautiful engrossing adventure.'This means that her fear of what life has in store is greatly diluted. She is ready to embrace whatever. It also means that she can live so easily in the moment, not needing for life to change, even when the moment challenges her.Donna-Leigh has learnt how to maximise every day. What is truly remarkable is that she has come to see life this way in spite of life dealing her the toughest of cards. Donna-Leigh was just seven years old when she witnessed her father drive a knife into the body of her mother. Minutes later, she watched her father being driven away in the back of a police car arrested for her mother's murder. She and her twin then became separated from her 3 siblings and over the next 5 years she endured torment and abuse in 13 different foster homes. She felt worthless, unloved, abandoned and alone. Circumstances gave her the opportunity to re-join her Father and her siblings in the same home where the murder took place 6 years earlier. It was mayhem, living with a schizophrenic, tortured, alcoholic soul. Donna-Leigh was at his bedside when her Father passed away from alcohol induced health issues. All of these experiences culminated in one momentous night where Donna-Leigh faced with mounting drug dependency, simply asked herself, 'Do I want to live'?  She rang Lifeline. In her own beautiful words, what rescued Donna-Leigh was the realisation that her traumatic childhood experiences HAPPENED TO HER NOT BECAUSE OF HER. It was a simple recognition that the events of her life did not need to define her. In fact, the meaning of her past experiences could be reframed to create greater purpose and greater life. Donna-Leigh became a Lifeline Suicide Prevention Counsellor, where she actively played a role in transforming the lives of the abused, the lonely and the traumatized.In reality, her life as a Counsellor, still exists today, but in a slightly different form. She is a world class keynote speaker. Her unique P.E.A.C.E tools and her Resilient Rockstar stage show are opening up the eyes of children and adults alike to recognise ways of handling bullying and resilience. Her children's books are a pleasure, a delight and profound life guidance for all who embrace them. Quite simply, Donna-Leigh's coaching should be a must in every school ... Home - Donna-Leigh Perfect ... Please call her to enquire of her life enhancing programmes ... +61 412 403 051.Recent episodes have truly blessed us with incredible stories and learnings. This one is top shelf. It was impossible to edit and sharpen, simply because all that was shared must be heard to fully understand the power of Donna-Leigh's wisdom. Prepare yourself for a remarkable podcast journey and one of our very best.To purchase her books go to ... Rescue Dog - Adventures of Jessie and Rocky Rockstar (donna-leighperfect.com)To email Donna-Leigh use ... donna-leigh@donna-leighperfect.comTo contact Bernie re Nepal, Donna-Leigh and a tribe of various opportunities call +61 412 982 444

John Coutis is the most colourful character ever to grace the airways of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE, (mind you JJ in Episode 34 comes a very close second). He uses the F word frequently. He strongly advised me to stop going too DEEP before we had started the podcast and he will tell you the listeners to embrace being offended. 'It builds resilience and creates a thick skin ... get used to it'. This is the way of the inspirational John Coutis. For all of his 'in your face' nuances, it's ever so easy to admire, enjoy and applaud this great Aussie larrakin. Part of the reason why you will do so is because even before he speaks, John's presence will send you a powerful message. You see, John ‘JC’ Coutis was born with a severe disability that rendered him a double amputee. He lives and moves without legs, yet has developed an unshakeable belief in his self-worth. His confidence is top shelf. Before he even 'let's it rip on you', he reminds you of your immense blessings and infinite possibilities just by meeting him. You can do so on A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE YouTube channel right now. John learnt about our 'capacity for immense resilience' almost from the moment of his birth. He defied medical opinion by refusing to die. Then as a young boy, he welcomed his Father's advice to be grateful for what he has, not what he doesn't. Fueled by a childhood of love, belief, and discipline, John refused to crumble under his handicap and societal pressure by embracing and maximising life, and that is now his message to all. 'Start living life fully with or without your handicaps. We have all got them!'.It's little wonder he has become one of the most sought-after inspirational speakers in the country. Hundreds of thousands per year are enthralled by his powerful messages delivered on stages all over the globe from his trusty skateboard. In this episode you hear him for free.You are fortunate people, but ...Expect to have a mirror put in front of your face. Take a good look. John would say that is your competitor.Expect to squirm. That might be because John fearlessly speaks the uncommon truth. It can make people uncomfortable.Expect to hear stories in which you will feel he is talking about you. He has an uncanny way of knowing what are your handicaps and making you realise them.If you are parents, be prepared for some powerful truths. You may discover you are a Lawnmower Parent. I hope not, but if you are, John wants you to recognise and change immediately.Expect to be offended. Embrace it. This is the way of John Coutis and we are privileged that such a soul exists to hit us over the head and awaken us from our slumber so that we too can appreciate every moment of life irrespective of the fortunes of life. Welcome to one of our best.John Coutis ... Book him for your next function ... www.johncoutis.com ... +61 438 340 869Bernie Kelly ... +61 412 982 444Chip's Recommended ResourcesThe Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark, by Carl Sagan CARL SAGAN’S BULLSHIT DETECTION KIT - Dying Words"Calling Bullshit in the Age of Big Data" Video Series

What do you get when 3 successful Business Coaches come together to discuss the way they see the world, life and performance?You get the magic of Episode 55, a wonderful exploration of inspiring possibilities facilitated by Bernie with Ralph and Sandra Gartner, Founders of Essentia Coaching and Consulting … www.essentiacoaching.com.au It was always going to be that way when you consider that in Sandra and Ralph, you have a Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming, two Graduate Diplomas in Ontological Coaching and Professional Coaching Accreditation from the International Coach Federation. These guys are right up there! It’s no wonder their clients report results and outcomes that blow their minds. Yet for all of their advanced skill and masterful expertise, you the listener are also going to hear of tangible practices, that if applied, can also significantly transform your life into one of greater happiness and sustainable joy. Be warned, you will be working hard on identifying and clarifying your values. You’ll be challenged to understand what your values look like in everyday behaviors, and you will be asked to ponder the question, “Who would you become, if you lived your values without compromise, on a MOMENTARY basis?” Wait until you hear Ralph’s answer !! It’s clear to Ralph and Sandra that KNOWING and LIVING YOUR VALUES is the gateway to clarifying your PURPOSE and seeing clearly the VISION for your life.Don’t be surprised if the VALUE of CURIOSITY … being curious and inquisitive about everything, doesn’t sneak into your values set after this podcast. They make a bloody good case for it! For all of their guidance, I predict that the aspect of this podcast you will enjoy the most are their personal stories that left a bewildered Sandra virtually stranded at the altar and a young Ralph, who stumbled through the early years of his life floundering to find purpose and growth. As we have heard from so many guests, these episodes of pain and confusion have only served them to become who they are today and to shape the wonderful coaching service influencing so many today. In the spirit of that service and generosity, Ralph and Sandra offer you our treasured listener a free personal coaching session! Once you hear their skill and value through this podcast, you will realise that taking up this offer might just be the most proactive, life-enhancing step you could take today. Don’t hold back contact them today …. Book your appointment now !!!Book Sandra here - https://calendly.com/book_your_coaching_session/45minBook Ralph here  - https://calendly.com/ralphcoach/discovery-callIf, you would like to introduce yourself to them first. That’s easy, simply contact Ralph or Sandra on +61 400 668 300 or email … info@essentiacoaching.com.auHeh, don’t forget Chip and I either. We would love to hear your feedback on our podcast. It would be a joy to talk with you.Bernie K … +61 412 982 444bernie.kelly@outlook.comLachlan ‘Chip’ Huddy … +61 410 603 336

This episode is one of our very BEST. The background is dark. The primary topic is evil, ignorant and sinister. The victims are children. Yet, the forces that have rescued 13500 children from child exploitation and sex trafficking is one driven by immense LOVE, PURPOSE and relentless COMMITMENT to right this injustice. Open up the website of 'Destiny Rescue' ... www.destinyrescue.org.au ... and you will read a remarkable story of Tony Kirwan who overheard a man in Thailand gloating about sex with a child. Picturing children of his own, Tony responded to his immediate calling to create an organisation that would hear the children's voices and free them from atrocious predators. Even more remarkably, 'Destiny Rescue' rehabilitates the children, helps them to see beyond their ordeal and build lives that can add value to their new world. Telling this story in this podcast is one of their 'faithful servants' ... the beautiful and the compassionate MARC NUSS. It's not often, I comfortably use words like 'beautiful and compassionate' to describe this strong and solid 'Springbok', but Marc is a rare man. The number of times his stories inspired my eyes to water were too many. You will know when I was choking with emotion when my responses softened to unusually quieter tones. The YouTube visual version of this podcast will be fascinating viewing for you.Heh, be assured, you too will struggle to hold it back, when you hear stories of '# 43' ... the little girl picked from the line up by a burly European who saw her as nothing more than a product and the young lady whose face shriveled with fear when she learnt he paid more for the celebratory beer than he did for the beauty of her diminutive body. These are stories that stir unsavory emotion but awaken your spirit. In reality, Marc's soul was probably already molded and shaped some years ago, when he watched a man leave the prison gates of Robbin Island to become the first post-apartheid President of a free South Africa. Nelson Mandela influenced Marc's want to make the world a better place. Now that's a pretty good mentor!Through this 'dare not leave' discussion, you will feel both disgusted and buoyed. You will feel sadness and joy. You will feel delighted that such an organisation led by great people like Marc Nuss exists. You will be inspired by what they as rescuers have learnt about life and people. You will hear that life and purpose are relatives. Even until the day we pass, Marc believes we must be driven by purpose. Victor Frankl and 'Man's Search for Meaning' would agree. You will hear from Marc that our capacity to love has no limits and that by the end of our days, we will come to learn that it really is the only thing that matters.A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE is very proud to bring you this episode. It certainly makes us feel that the podcast is now entering a new dimension.We advocate to you that if you are moved by this 64-minute dialogue, that you immediately visit .... www.destinyrescue.org.au ... you will see the DONATE button. It's a no brainer. If you abhor the thought of children being exploited in any way let alone sexually, you simply must donate, which of course is a 'love in action' example that Marc Nuss calls for in this podcast.Please call Marc 0429 701 729 to show your support and ascertain how you can contribute.Bernie K +61 412 982 444A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE on INSTAGRAM ... berniekelly103

Reena Augustine is a unique woman of the world in her early 30's. She certainly is not the norm. As a woman of Indian origin, she reminds me of one of the sisters from Mother Teresa's Missionaries of Charity in Kolkata. They are walking love. Reena is similar, but with two differences. The prayerful life of the Sisters tends to calm them a little. Reena is exuberant and mightily enthusiastic!Secondly, the Sisters have chosen a life of love for one man ... Jesus. Unlike the sisters, Reena doesn't want to see everybody as her brother and her sister, because one of those brothers has to eventually become her husband. Wait till you hear that discussion in the opening of the show. Hilarious!!Apart from those differences, Reena and the Sisters are both LOVE personified.So, from where does her innate joy arise. You know, I am not sure Reena entirely knows, but as the podcast unfolds, you will hear her identify experiences that have entrenched within her this extraordinary abundance of life, love and joy.In her early teens she lost her beloved father and welcomed the responsibility of working to earn necessary monies to support her mother and family. This moulded her service. In her late teens, she leaves her home in Western India to pursue studies as a Motor Mechanic here in Australia. Yes, that's right folks ... a motor mechanic. Have a look at the profile pic and imagine such 'a glamour' performing 'a grease and oil change'! But as soon as she bravely stepped off the plane into a Brisbane Christmas of 38 degrees, she knew she had found a new home. This shaped her courage to be bold.  Over the next 5 years, she would ensure that Australia would come to know who is Reena Augustine. That's her message to all migrants. Tell Australia who are you! Don't hide in a suburb with your cultural countrypersons. Embrace all Australians. Reena has and they have embraced her with multiple business awards and recognitions.  The little girl from Western India has created her own 'Not for Profit' called Redcarpet Functions ...  www.redcarpetfunctions.com.au ... It bridges gaps. It facilitates connection and it gives migrants to our country the courage to embrace their new home. They love her for it.Rarely, do you see one so fully alive every day. Take a look at her Instagram account ... reenaaugustine ... joy abounds! So much so, that she even has doubters that it is real! This she finds hard to understand because for her 'being happy' should be normal for all. Shouldn't it??Maybe it was because her native India gave her so many tastes of death, that she is so aware of never taking life for granted. Her phrase 'wear your best clothes today' is a line that will forever define this Episode 53.I have no doubt that your spirits are about to be raised by this discussion. Through Reena, you will develop a new love ALL PEOPLE, but particularly the elderly and their wisdoms. You may even see the value of a Christmas afternoon at a 'Home for the Aged'. Maybe you should join Reena this Christmas! For sure, you will understand what it means to adopt LOVE as a WAY OF LIFE for that is the way of REENA AUGUSTINE ... the Motor Mechanic from India who will give you a joyful taste of 'Mother Teresa' love and exuberance. You are about to become very happy.Reena Augustine and Red Carpet Functions ... Ph: +61 401 229 866Bernie K ... +61 412 982 444 ... bernie.kelly@outlook.com

There are two love stories in this episode. First of all, it is the story of two people, one of whom was restricted by her perception of her Father's inadequacies and the other burnt by personal chaos endured as his life unfolded. Together, they found ways to liberate each other from painful pasts and create what is a dedicated, evolving and perhaps extraordinary love. You will learn methods and processes from Neville Stone and Justine Baker that assist any loving partnership to cope, to tolerate and to flourish. Here is an example. They talk of letting go of the need to cling and attach as an act of trust and faith in each other. The want to 'give space' to each other is their gift of love. However, it is the second love story that makes this episode extraordinary. Inspired by the foundation of love they have for each other, Neville and Justine have chosen to channel their love towards the wellbeing and emotional growth of 4 siblings, who have been scarred by earlier upbringings. Once Neville and Justine knew the story of these 4 children, the opportunity to foster care and raise them to better life was in their words a 'no brainer'. It might be a 'no brainer' for them, but the messages of this single act are profound. Would you be prepared to let go of all previous well laid plans for your life in order to unwrap this unexpected package of raising 4 children who biologically are not your own? Would you do so in the belief that life has another pathway for you that will bring you greater gifts?Would you do so in your 50's or 60's?The decision, the faith, the commitment is extraordinary. Absolutely amazing! Like me, I hope you fall in love with the notion that it is impossible to hate, if you thirst to know people's real story. If you know their story and their background, then you understand their behavior rather than judge it. This is an essence of Neville's and Justine's lifestyle. It is a valuable lesson for all.It is not surprising that their lives have been blessed by such wisdoms, as they both are avid learners, mainly through reading. They suggest that these books be 'top shelf' for you ...The Four Agreements by Don Miguel RuizFamilies and How to Survive Them by John Cleese and Robin SkynnerThe Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark MansonThe Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin ... Chad Foreman also recommended this one!The Richest Man in Babylon by George Samuel ClasonThe Prophet by Kahlil Gibran ... one of my personal favorites!During the episode a reference was made to the leadership qualities of Mike Brearley ... the great English Cricket Captain.For the record, his stats were 39 Tests at a batting average of 22.88, not those estimated by Bernie during the podcast. Apologies to Michael. Mind you Michael, I did have your batting average a little higher so spread the podcast if you want A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE to spread a brighter light on your batsmanship! One thing is certain, that if you listen intently to this episode and truly hear all of its wonderful messages, you will definitely be improving your batting average in this beautiful game called life. It will teach you how to play with different strokes and to attack the game with greater compassion and love.PS And If by chance you are interested in the pathway of looking after such children of need on a weekend or on a more permanent basis, then Neville or I would welcome your call.Bernie K +61 412 982 444 ... bernie.kelly@outlook.comNeville Stone +61 417 723 434

When I first met Robert Wall just hours before the podcast recording, my immediate impression was ‘Wow’, there is wisdom in this soul ! As the podcast discussion unfolded my initial impression was entirely validated. You can look forward to understanding different disguises of the ego and how it erodes your happiness and peace. Robert’s ancient story of philosophical masters, who taught us that the final Gateway to the Gods can only come by KNOWING THY SELF was enthralling. But what does that mean? … This discussion will reveal. Perhaps the most interesting revelation in this podcast is Robert’s coaching that even as a child our innate tendencies, preferences and abilities are seeable. What’s more they really are a signpost to what will fulfil our purpose later in life. Wait until you hear how Robert ties my teenage successes with what I do today. It was masterful detecting work ! The implication of course is for parents to see and accept these innate preferences within their child and support them so that their children can grow to do what they are meant to do. Surely, this is recipe for inner happiness. We shouldn’t be surprised by Robert’s offering because this dynamic entrepreneur has owned or founded companies in media, telecommunications, financial services, mining and education technology. He is the author of “The People Key – Unlocking the Secrets to Getting Along with Anyone”. The man is an innovator in the fields of leadership, culture and personal development. As founder and CEO of ‘Natural Ability’ Robert and his team simply empowers organisations to become so much more. His primary tool is teaching the power of true and deep self awareness. You will get a taste of his wisdom in this podcast … that’s for sure. You might even appreciate it even more on YouTube where you can see this inspiring discussion unfold. Robert Wall +61 414 556 772www.naturalability.com.auBernie Kelly +61 412 982 444

There are two stories here. The first is a service to you our listeners. Why not celebrate our 50th episode by announcing that A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE has gone VISUAL. You called for it. You got it and YOU WILL BE DELIGHTED. There is no doubt that when you can see the impressions on the faces of our guest and host, it just adds value to the communication experience. Simply search for A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE - EPISODE 50 on YouTube and you will see all the studio action. You deserve this and we are delighted to see you on your iPhone, your Samsung, your Laptop even your Smart TV. Enjoy !! ... https://youtu.be/lM3fT-9zSOA?si=OJgzR9FJUXhvKVXRThe second story is one of evolving transformation. It is a story when Adam Bell bravely woke up one day and simply shouted 'ENOUGH'. He had had ENOUGH of waking up feeling neutral, feeling as if he was just EXISTING in this game of life. Mind you, this CEO of a growing and exceptional Gold Coast Podcast studio, will be the first to say that 20 years of smoking 'pot' may well have been the foundation for such a narrow perspective of life. He intimates that his smoking habit simply sucked the excitement and energy out of him and left him floating from day to day with no purpose. At times, it was a contributor to deep depressive states. His descriptions of that state in this episode are graphic and will certainly give you the listener a glimpse of this crippling world of mental health. He is brave to share it with us. But to dwell on early catalysts for a drowning life is not the story. This is about the comeback ... a mighty comeback. It is about a man's search for insight and finally, it is about the courage to leave it all behind and act with new vision. That is the journey that now has Adam Bell practicing 10-12 daily actions and processes that contribute to his redemption. Just imagine if your daily routine even included half of the following. Who might you become? That is the question this episode asks. 1. Bed before 10pm ... Arise before 6 am 2. Cold Shower3. Morning Meditation for 20 minutes4. Grounding with the Earth5. Writes out 3 x affirmations for this day and keeps them in his pocket for the day.6. Read Goals aloud twice per day.7. No alcohol ... because that's what Adam's body deserves8. Intense Exercise 6 days a week 9. Listens to Mindset Podcast at every opportunity.10. Daily Gratitude statement so that he dilutes his need for more !You have to love a story which teaches hope, courage, insight and action. It's the comeback that will inspire you. For any of you who can relate to that feeling of just floating through life then this story is going to tease you with actionable possibilities. You will love it.

Revisit Episode 36 with Chad Foreman and you will hear of a super-competitive, ambitious young man with a McEnroe temper who dreamed of being a Wimbledon Champion. To further his game, Chad was introduced to meditative practices that so intrigued him that he eventually changed paths to become a Buddhist Monk. It was that wise Chad, who delivered a single line in Episode 36, that was a paradigm shifter for so many of our listeners ... "love is the fragrance of emptiness". There was so much value in those 6 words, that getting Chad back for this riveting discussion was always going to happen. Of course, once again he has delivered so much more.In this episode, you will hear Chad explain why he is merely a student of The Way. If this is so, then you are listening to a very aware student ... a very wise one ... a student who sees things so much more simply and clearly then most. Listen to Chad explain 'Why Society is Sick'. Better still, listen to his answers and how you can play a role in re-creating communities built upon Lao Tzu's three greatest treasures ... Peace, Harmony and Compassion. Chad's call for 'Enlightened Companies', whose purpose is the betterment and happiness of society, not the accumulation of profits and riches ... it is so thought provoking. To honour John Lennon, he IMAGINES a school and education system whose main purpose is to inspire students to create new visions for the society into which they will enter. Most of all, Chad Foreman in this episode will awaken you to your beautiful possibilities with simple actions that you could incorporate into your lifestyle in this very moment.I was so impacted by this Chat with Chad that I have now taken upon myself to host a DAY with CHAD FOREMAN on Sunday Nov 12 here in Buderim, Southeast Qld. It's a full day from 0900 am to 1600 pm catering for 18 persons only, and you are welcome. However, it is first in - first serve. It's a day for us to celebrate the possibilities of life. The cost of $150 will not only supply you with MT and lunch but introduce you to 6 different meditative practices, which collectively will show you a path to your higher true self of Peace, Harmony, Love and Compassion. Gee, we would love to have you on board. To register your interest please contact or text Bernie Kelly on 0412982444.In the meantime, Chad suggests you read any of these three books. They are amongst his favorites. THE JOY OF LIVING ... Unlocking the Secret and Science of Happiness by Yongey Mingyur RinpocheTHE HAPPINESS TRAP ... How to Stop Struggling and Start Living by Russ HarrisTHE LAZYMAN'S GUIDE TO ENLIGHTENMENT by Thaddeus GolasWhat a journey it has been with Chad Foreman over two episodes and what a contribution he has made to our journey of becoming that more loving, happier human being. Life is beautiful when you make Love your Purpose.Bernie K +61412982444Chad Foreman +61404136077

This is a remarkable love story. It is about a young woman discovering how to love herself fueled by ‘love in action’ from her partner Josh and a huge on-line community of followers and consequently renewing her love for life. However, it hasn't always been this way. Listen to Episode 18 and you will hear of the same Bella Cameron, who just 12 months ago was UNLEARNING from a society and success culture that led her down a pathway with which she could not cope. In fact, it nearly destroyed her. Despite almost being dux of her prominent Qld Private School, Bella ended up bulimic and suffering profound mental health issues. By mid-twenties her life was in disarray. And then she discovered the 16th century art of CROCHETING. Yes, you heard that rightly dear listeners! Bella found an ancient art that became both her meditation and her passion, which led to her restoration and her becoming the SUPREME WINNER of The 2023 Australian Wearable Art Festival. (Please Google it or www.australianwearableart.com.au) Experienced and expert entries from all around the world were not created by similar passionate hands driven by the enormous love and connection that Bella had for her Babushka … her Ukranian Grandmother. Love created her winning masterpiece. It was Love and Courage that allowed Bella to move so swiftly from a person of flux and confusion to one of clarity, purpose and international success. Bella’s last 12 months is a formula for personal transformation that everyone should understand. It involves the beautiful mix of Discovering your Purpose and then liberating the Courage to live it. It involves Resilient Focus that wouldn't give any energy to potential Distractions, a newfound confidence to 'Say NO' and the joy of Finding your People. Put it all together and you have a woman who found her modified existence in a society that once threatened her life.To understand the fullness of Bella’s incredible journey, first embrace Episode 18. Hear both episodes, one after the other, so you too can be in awe of her journey of love, happiness and meaning. Together, they show us a way to a beautiful and perhaps sustainable place in this game we call ‘Life’. Bernie K +61 412982444Bella Cameron +61 428958944

One of the great surprises in A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE comes when a previous guest insists on reversing the roles and putting Bernie K 'on the couch'. Well thanks to Chris Anderson from Episode 20, that was exactly the opportunity that arose and inspired this extraordinary interview. It's unique! It's unique because this hour allows Bernie to bring the golden lessons of all past episodes to one high impact discussion and wow doesn't he do it superbly. This is an education that just jabs away with great regularity delivering valued lesson after lesson. There were so many teachings, it prompted our editor and producer Lachlan 'Chip' Huddy, to inject another new segment. We call it Chip's LOADED QUESTIONS. From now on, each episode will feature two interventions from Chip, who will tease you with THOUGHT-PROVOKING QUESTIONS arising from the engaging content that will inspire you. It's all about helping you, the listener, to recognize what actions and strategies you need to implement in order to become that more loving happier human being. Chip's LOADED QUESTIONS makes its debut in this episode. Let us know what you think!So, get ready to be teased and prodded by an exploration of ... What holds you back from fulfilling your purpose? What fears emanating from your past experiences, stop you from doing what you are meant to do?Have you built the right environment around you to allow you to bring the best possible you to each and every day?How to ensure that your communications are being driven by authentic 'heart speak' not the illusions of 'monkey mind'.Why the quality we need to use more is the powerful gift of perspective, which we all own.We also discuss ... Why we need more women leading the workforce? And why men must be unafraid to display and utilise their connecting feminine energies! This is not a 'soft call' guys! This is about becoming the more fulfilled man. Learn how in this episode. Seriously, these topics are just the beginning drawing from Chad Foreman's Episode 36 and compulsory readings such as 'THE BOOK OF JOY' by Douglas Abrams with Desmund Tutu and Dalai Llama, and another we have highly recommended previously ... 'COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED' by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. Yet another reference in this podcast alludes to the must see YouTube remake of 'We are the World' by Bernie's youth clients and the residents of Kibera ... the big slum of Nairobi ... We Are The World, MOH and Gi Originally by Michael Jackson, USA for Africa - YouTube ... It's all part of this exceptional episode which is likely to attract multiple listens, such is its educational value. This is punchy, powerful and potent.Bernie K +61412982444Chris Andersen +61424682636 ... Community Builder through his monthly event called 'Beer with Mates' and Podcast Host ... 'Ando and Co'.

When we look at the Analytics, Episode 34 with JJ, continues to attract enormous interest. Mind you, JJ's story was mind-blowing and the raw emotion he offered in that interview was as transparent as you can get. This episode featuring the multi-colored journey of Nathan Flynn is EQUALLY remarkable. We at A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE are comfortable in saying that very few episodes will match the profound learning possibilities attached to this story and discussion. It is vulnerable, so open and so beautifully authentic. Nathan Flynn is a rarity.You will learn from Nathan how a religious framework that was meant to empower greater life, smothered his growth and molded a teenager devoid of confidence and self-worth. Nathan was able to recognize his shrinking existence at just 14 years, but the cost of protest would be his family's support and being chucked out of home. He hung on until 18 years of age.Without the support of the one institution that had been there all of his life, Nathan entered the big wide world as a late teenager, only to discover comfort in regular meetings with members of a Bikie Gang. Slowly, but surely, the grooming prepared him for a contrasting life. No more prayers and worship in this environment, just violent tests of his manhood. A story of crime, drug trafficking and gang fights unfolded, taking him to the most obvious of destinations. Nathan Flynn was sentenced to 9+ years imprisonment for 20 criminal charges. Through good behaviors, he thankfully served only five. Then the miracle occurred. In this most unlikely of places, Nathan found love ... love for a woman, love for self and love for life, and to think that so much of his transformation was inspired by the simple act of writing 'love letters' makes this episode enlightening. Put it this way, we now feel that if we aren't writing regular gratitude entries, then quite simply we are not committed enough to this journey of being a more loving human being. What Nathan will teach you here is profound.The dark days are over now, and the shadows of earlier years have been replaced by light and heart-warming possibilities. Fueled, by the ongoing empowerment of his ever-evolving, beautiful, married relationship with Megan, Nathan has re-evaluated, re-calibrated and re-programmed his life for greater good. Married with child, Nathan now leads a productive business and values frequent opportunities to help others see new life without travelling down wayward paths. His mentorship in John Godwin's Inspiring Brighter Futures Foundation is priceless. It is episodes like this that at the most can seriously change people's lives. At the least, you will be shown the value of taking time out and communicating clearly the depth of love you have for precious people in your life. Nathan Flynn wants you to enjoy his story and embrace the multiple lessons that every minute provides.Bernie Kelly +61412982444Nathan Flynn +61426007381Chip Lachlan Huddy +61410603336

When Andrew de Angelis asks you to leave his establishment because you're an 'intoxicated nuisance', he buys you a bottle of water and escorts you all the way down the 5 floor elevator, chatting to you about how good it will be to see you back  next week!! He's the only Bouncer I know, who gets a cheeky kiss from the girls when they are leaving. Even the ones he has asked to leave thank him for the evening! Andrew de Angelis is the happiest 'Bouncer' in the World.I remind you, that this is in an industry, where most security guards think they have to strut their power, remain distant from the customer and chuck you out at first sign of the slightest misbehave. The approach of Andrew de Angelis couldn't be more opposite. He connects with people. During your beautiful evening with friends at THE EMPORIUM ROOFTOP BAR overlooking the city lights and the Brisbane River, Andrew will even come around, pick up your empty dinner plates, share his latest joke or two that is certain to leave you laughing heartily not so much at the quality of his joke, but more at the broadness of his lively British accent. People just love him. Yet, this happy persona was once a highly regarded British Soldier who served in Bosnia, Northern Ireland and the Iraq War. He knows how power can be so seriously misused. He has seen massive egos create unnecessary conflict. He also knows what it feels like to protect his brothers and sisters in arms. They were his family, until a gang attack in England many years ago took away 70% of his hearing and all of his sense of smell. His professional career in the British Army which he loved so much, was taken from him overnight inspiring bouts of depression, alcoholism and anger. The journey that followed has been a long one but has taken Andrew to a rare place in which he 'sees the good' and 'speaks the good' of everyone he greets at THE EMPORIUM ROOFTOP BAR, South Brisbane every weekend. This is a funny beautiful episode about a soldier overcoming adversity and just 'sucking it up' to become a happy man who walks with joy and spreads goodwill wherever he goes ... And so typical of Andrew is his want to thank the following special people in his life, who have helped him become 'the Happiest Bouncer in the World' ... Ian Holliman ... a childhood colleague who gave Andrew work when just released from hospital.Army mates Wilkie and Paula, and then there was Coxie, who was always there for Andrew when needed.Salute to Trev, who lost a leg in Bosnia. Andrew loved being there for you pal!'Tru Security' for their belief in a disabled man when he most needed your support.The Episode makes reference to ...The Love Language® Quiz (5lovelanguages.com) ... A Quiz and an outstanding Book by Gary ChapmanAndrew de Angelis +61 476 307 065Bernie Kelly ... +61 412 982 444'Chip' Lachlan Huddy ... +61 410 603 336

Kibera is now Africa's biggest slum with over 1,000,000 residents who earn less than US$2 per day. A family of 7, might live in 9-12 sq metres floorspace that is encased by corrugated iron walls and a leaking roof. Such families, all know Thomas Nyawir. If they knew of Mother Teresa, then surely, they would see Thomas as her brother.He, with his wife Judy, are the Founders of THE MIRROR OF HOPE ... Mirror of Hope - Edmund Rice Foundation (erf.org.au) ... an outstanding charitable organization that sponsors Kiberian children through quality Primary, Secondary and Tertiary education. At time of writing, nearly 130 children are active beneficiaries. In addition, the Mirror of Hope's SILC PROJECT supports women living in Kibera, most of whom as the primary or sole breadwinners are also HIV diagnosed. Through Thomas inspired projects, these women are equipped with micro finances and business skills to create a visionary exit for a new beginning. When Thomas walks through the slum, the community rises. He has a Nelson Mandela status amongst his people and they are his people for Thomas himself was once part of the community. He, however, was a fortunate one, whose innate talents were  recognised by a wealthy visitor who sponsored Thomas out of the slum and into a new existence. For Thomas, this is a Pay-it Forward vocation. For the residents he is their way forward. A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE has been blessed with Thomas and Judy's friendship for 12 years now, perhaps longer. Annually, Thomas welcomed 40 to 90 Australian school children to East Africa and gave them an education about the Kiberian world that only few of them realised existed. Some of the experiences had by our Aussie students is now legendary. The visit to the resident's homes was enough to ignite the quality of gratefulness permanently, while the teaming with their Kiberian peers to form a choir and then three days later lay down their own version of WE ARE THE WORLD has become a life memory ... www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYWznNCaILoRarely, has A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE been so privileged to welcome a man whose career and life has been so defined by love in action. It is not possible to put into words what you will learn from this episode, except to say that it comes from a source that very few people on this planet will ever know. Thomas Nyawir +254 722 813 063    www.facebook.com/mirrorofhopecbo/ Bernie Kelly +61 412 982 444    bernie.kelly@outlook.com

He is one of a kind. He is our editor, our producer and now he is the custodian of learning ... our INSIGHT INTERPRETER. From now on, Chip HUDDY will host a new segment at the end of each episode of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE. It's called CHIP'S TAKE HOME PAY and it will be his 4 minute summary of key learnings that will add even more value to your listening and learning experience. As CHIP so beautifully suggests, he will 'springboard you towards seeing key strategies and actions that can move you forward towards becoming that more loving human being'. CHIP is perfect for this new role. He himself is a critical thinker. He wants to teach you on how to become one as well. Chip is super intelligent and I frequently bow to his unique turn of phrase and his width of vocabulary. Even in this episode, you will hear his colour with phrases like ... 'grief is love persisting' ... It will 'rip your apathy' ... or 'quietening that voice of unworthiness'. So that you can get to know our wonderfully fun, full of life, co-host this CHAPTER WITH CHIP is about his personal learnings from our most recent episodes. He highlights stories of guests that impacted him greatly. He explains why. More importantly, he shares how lessons from the podcast have taught him on how to be a better man, a better partner and a greater embracer of life.  Chip Huddy is joy personified. You will enjoy this episode immensely and at the end of it you may even want contact details on Chip's private Irish counsellor! Her 'Joey' strategy is a ripper!Chip Huddy +61 410603336Bernie Kelly +61 412982444 .... bernie.kelly@outlook.com

Janette Salmi is a gem. She is a beautiful jewel ... a woman of class and high-level integrity. She is driven by her clear values which inspire her belief in the wholesome capacity of the human spirit. Throughout all of her SEASONS ... her SEASON as a mother of four ... her SEASON as a senior secondary school administrator ... her SEASON as an aged care nurse, she has always offered faith and belief in the dignity and respect for the individual. At times, people thought that her preference to honour 'goodness in others' was naive, maybe even an invitation to treat her as a 'soft touch' and ride profitably on her enthusiasm. It is true, she has been taken for granted, but never once has her innate kindness, her faith in humanity, and her preference to live a life rich in love ... never once has it waivered. This is the Janette Salmi way. SEASONS are what Janette calls the CHAPTERS of her life, and it is 'the good and the flawed' experiences from her SEASONS, that have strengthened her way and led her to a powerful and beautiful existence.As the last third (60-90, according to Jane Fonda) of her life approached, Janette Salmi chose to dedicate herself to housing and caring for her aged Uncle Jeff and Aunty Meg. She loved them too much to see them separated in a Sydney nursing home. Supported by her husband, she renovated the 'granny flat' and became the custodian of dignity, ensuring that Uncle and Aunty lived out their elder years rich in love, wisdom and celebration. Some saw that Janette's choice was simply putting her own life on hold. Janette's response was to smile and welcome the continuous treasure load of experiences that kept adding enormous value to the lives of all, who encountered this profound loving environment for her extended family.Uncle Jeff and Aunty Meg have recently passed away with the grace and dignity they deserved. Both of them living beyond their medically predicted timeframes. Janette now finally, has the time to retire, take breath, slow down and enjoy quieter times, BUT ... this is not the Janette way! Why would anyone stop offering the wisdom of their years, when they reach that beautiful stage of life when they finally KNOW ... when finally, they can SEE. When finally, they have that feeling of ARRIVING ... that feeling of VALUE. These are the sentiments of Janette Salmi and this is why Janette in her early 70's has started an extraordinary business called DIGNIFIED MOVEMENT ... www.dignifiedmovement.com.au ... which is dedicated to inspiring new levels of Dignified Disability Care, Dignified Home Care for the Elderly, Dignified Enhancement of Senior Life. Janette, who feels at the peak of her powers is now taking advantage of the journey of her years to build her legacy. She is extraordinary.My dear people, this story is inspiring. It is powerful. It changes the way we see the last term of life. It blows extra breath into how we see, interact, relate and respect our elder citizens and disabled brothers and sisters. At the heart of it all is one woman's desire to live fully fuelled by her enormous capacity to love deeply. This episode is gold and Janette Salmi is the glorious treasure. Dignified Movement 1800 957 834 ... admin@dignifiedmovement.com.auJanette Salmi ... +61 425 455 425Bernie K ... +61 412 982 444 ... bernie.kelly@outlook.com

For 30 years, I have asked teachers around the world the same question ... "Does Education prepare our children for Life?" My instinct says that 90% have shaken their heads with disappointment, claiming that red tape, curriculum pressures and confused vision from government defined leadership, have distracted teachers from the very heart of what they believe is the ultimate purpose of education. They agree with the voice of Chad Foreman who in Episode 36 suggested that education prepares students for an economy, not for a life of love and happiness.In this extraordinary exploration of educational possibilities, Australian Teacher of the Year Nominee, Mitch Mills, with the full support of his school's administration opposes the trend. His increasingly popular 'Changing Lanes' program fosters potent, solid friendships across the entire cohort that last well beyond their school years. He leads processes and experiences that create comfort around openness, vulnerability, authenticity and strong connectedness. Mitch helps his students to feel the power of 'REAL' and in so doing creates bonds that support each other for decades.'Changing Lanes' challenges teachers too. Teachers are called to be appropriately vulnerable and REAL as are the students. They must model the behavior. Parents have to be in on the act as well. They too need skills of openness, authentic and loving speech, comfort in providing 'tough love' with teenagers who can innately be silent and closed. Mitch's programme inspires strong supportive communities and in doing so he is offering the student an experience far more meaningful than Calculus and the Periodic Table. He is not blind to the need for curriculum, but he wishes to offer education a new vision, which balances subject-driven learnings with skills and perspectives that bring students happiness and meaning for life. Mitch Mills is a much-needed revolution, coaching our children to find love for self, the beauty of people and the joy of life.Bernie Kelly +61 412982444Mitch Mills +61 438880202

When Florian and Vicky, the adventurers from Austria, who sailed the world during Covid (Episode 38), suggested I meet Mayda Reyes, a Tantra Healer from Mexico, I must admit to two things. INTRIGUE and a TREPIDATION as to what I was opening myself up too !!! Here at the launch of this extraordinary episode, I now realise how little I know about ancient philosophies ... how easy it is to be framed by religious constructs that hinder us from being fully human ... and how beautiful it is to meet a woman with compassion and understanding for the journey of MEN. Mayda Reyes comes from the 'Lineage of the Kings' from her beloved Mexico. She is a Tantra Healer. She explains that Tantra is a philosophy that precedes Hinduism and Buddhism. It is a human road-map on how one can maximise their human experience and touch the source of creation. We can do both. She explains how the Western World has only tapped into that part of Tantra that major religions deemed both 'sacred and taboo'. Consequently, she speaks about the depths of sexuality and intimacy like one would speak about eating or any other human function. Her freedom around sexual expression is liberating. You will hear it in this episode.She has the same reason as many other women to be hurt and revengeful about the selfish actions of sex-driven men, but instead she compassionately seeks to understand them. She helps them to see their sacredness and to be their higher self. Through her, men can weep like waterfalls. Such is their feeling of liberation.I am very proud to bring you this episode with Mayda Reyes. It is different ... very different. It approaches the subject of love, happiness and meaning from yet another dimension of life. Please listen with an open mind. Make sure the word 'Tantra' does not block you or tarnish your perception of what this episode is about, for if it does, you will miss out on 'gold and treasure' as rich as the Aztec and Inca Cultures which have massaged the spirit of this beautiful woman.Bernie K +61 412982444Mayda Reyes +52 4434712756 ... Feel free to contact Mayda if you felt that she might be a suitable coach for your needs.

Florian calls it a 'Chance Encounter'. A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE calls it 'finding the perfect wind'. It was such good fortune, when I turned to the guy standing beside me and simply asked 'how his day was unfolding'. When he stated that he was in Brisbane for boat repairs, curiosity revealed that Florian Grassl and Vicky Weichsler, a husband and wife team from Austria had been sailing the oceans from the moment Covid became a pandemic. Immediately, questions arose ... What is the effect on one when it's just you, a boat, a sail and nothing but ocean?Does it calm you? Is it meditative?What is the effect on two people's relationship when couped in limited space for weeks on end?Does it make you talk about 'stuff' that you'd normally avoid?Does it inspire greater listening, empathy and understanding?What do you see when it's just you, an ocean horizon and an exquisite sunset? Do you feel 'God'?What happens to your spirit when you remove yourself from the pace of society and its 'success' culture?How did the powerful force of marine nature impact you?Question after question arose, and while we may not have answered all of those questions in this one-hour adventure story, there are so many gems inspired by this incredible tale, that profound awareness is assured.The learning on offer from Florian Grassl and Vicki Weichsler need not stop with this podcast, as their blog continues to offer ongoing blessings for all who follow their story ... www.sailing-ibex.comPerhaps as a final thought, listeners should take note of the joy and opportunity that is all around you. Next time you are lining up for an evening beverage, just say 'hello' to the person beside you. You may finish up learning a truckload ... or a boatful! Enjoy the journey and forgive Bernie's singing at start and finish of the podcast with sincere apologies to Rod Stewart.Bernie K +61 412982444

When a guest on a JOURNEY WITH BERNIE wants to return the favour by asking BERNIE KELLY, his host and facilitator to participate in HIS podcast, then the result is BERNIE under the microscope on what he has learnt from the game of life. Coincidentally, it was such an appropriate request, as it coincided with the one-year anniversary of A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE which was launched on April 27, 2022. The remarkable Prof Kenneth Pakenham was our first guest and he really did offer us great insights into what brings meaning into our lives. He got this party going! I am forever grateful.In truth, so many of my deeper insights have come from the lessons gleaned from all 36 podcast guests so far. They have opened up my eyes to the power of love as a life purpose. Do not interpret this as a 'motherhood' or soft statement. For me, it is clear now ... 'Love is all there is ... The rest is window dressing'. Of course, it is so easy to say this. The real value does not come from such a vision. It comes from knowing the pathway on how to get there, and that's what this podcast is all about and it is also the value of this episode. You will hear a Bernie interpretation of what my life and 36 extraordinary guests have taught me about maximising this game of life. I so hope you enjoy it. Of course, this episode you catch on Spotify twice! And may I suggest that you really do go to the M26FIT podcast hosted by Magnus, because its process is a ripper. Magnus fires 26 impromptu questions at his guests with the expectation of one minute answers! Well, I knew that wasn't going to happen when he interviewed me!! The result is a fast-paced podcast loaded with richness. Simply go to Spotify and type in M26 FIT PODCAST. Make sure you press FOLLOW too, so that you consistently take advantage of all that Magnus and his wonderful guests have to offer.For now, let me give you some very good reasons to tell your friends and family to FOLLOW 'A JOURNEY WITH BERNIE', as this episode blasts you with the goodness extracted over the last 12 months. Cheers good people ... Bernie K +61 412982444